So, I’ve been hinting at my rough couple of weeks. While I was feeling increasingly uneasy about our situation, I was hoping to get to today and have good news to share! I can’t go into detail because it is a legal matter, but I can tell you that today was supposed to be the day of my old house closing….my house would have been officially sold and we would finally be free to fully start our life in Washington! I waited three full months for this closing from the time my buyers made the offer and I was SO LOOKING FORWARD to celebrating today.
After a long year of unemployment for my husband, him starting a great new job this past January, the strain of getting our house on the market, looking for a new home and the complications of moving to Washington to start a new life, I was ready to feel settled. I am not feeling settled living in one state and owning a home in another! I was ready to breath a sigh of relief that our long journey to Washington was finally over.
Well, sometimes life stinks and things don’t go like we hope they will. In spite of our hard work, diligent prayers and positive attitudes, things go wrong. Horribly wrong sometimes. God gave everyone free will and they can make some pretty rotten choices that affect other people in negative ways! Today, I am not celebrating. Today, I am sad and bewildered and tired.
After accepting the offer from my buyers three months ago and patiently waiting for their long closing period (meanwhile losing a backup offer!) two days ago they decided they didn’t want to buy a house now and they walked away. Yep, just walked away, leaving us picking up all the pieces. I received their official cancellation paperwork yesterday, the day before closing was scheduled.
Today was supposed to be an entirely different sort of a day. It makes me physically sick to think of all this means and what it could mean for us…we were all set to buy our new house next week. A lot of our plans and other people’s plans were affected by their decision.
I am angry, frustrated, disappointed and in disbelief that I have to start over. We moved everything out of the old house so the new owners could move in today. Now? I have to re-stage the house and start over.
Life isn’t always fair. It doesn’t always make sense. It isn’t always easy. It isn’t always beautiful. But I am choosing to continue to trust that God is watching out for us and working all things together for good. Even rotten things. Especially rotten things. I just need to trust and wait.
So many people are hurting far more than I am in life, I feel like my current situation is tiny — for that I am grateful.
I kind of felt like Flat Stanley this week,
trying to keep smiling in spite of that tire looming over my head!
FYI, my son took this photo. Poor Flat Stanley!
It was not a beautiful week for me, but in spite of all that happened, I pushed past my fog of disappointment and found something to be happy about. A great community of people who joined in together to create something beautiful with what we had. Sometimes that is all we can do, isn’t it? — just create beauty out of what we have.
Thanks for joining in and making the procrastinator party such a smashing success. I am BLOWN AWAY by your projects. You are a talented bunch, let me tell you! If you haven’t made your way through the links (I’m still working on it), you are in for a lot of inspiration!
I think we will make our Procrastinator Party a regular event, I sure need the accountability! So start thinking of your next project! How about if we hold our next party in July and the following one the first week of October? Would that be often enough without overwhelming us? Or should we just wait until October for the next one? Let me know what you think. I’ll get a button made and we’ll make it a big deal of it next time. Maybe we’ll have prizes.
{THIS GIVEAWAY IS NOW CLOSED!} In fact, let’s do a prize right now. I have a book to give away called DECORATING IS FUN by Dorothy Draper. It is an old classic that has been recently reprinted. I am going to give you an extra entry if you were one of the party participants. Any of you, even if you didn’t join in the party, can enter to win via the comments. There will be one winner, chosen at random, on Sunday night the 17th at 9PST.
This prize is just a small token of thanks for your sweet comments about my green chairs and for joining in with me to make this life, with all of its imperfections, a beautiful place to be. {GIVEAWAY IS NOW CLOSED}
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Melissa, just wanted you to know I’m lifting you guys up and asking God to turn this unexpected turn into an unforeseen blessing. He’s been showing me lately how we can open the way to his showers of blessings when we pray for those who have caused the problem. ANd rejoice in what He promises that we don’t yet see. So I lift up those people who left you holding the bag and pray for His Spirit to overflow their lives as He does yours… I also pray Psalm 91 over you and yours… and that He will overwhelm you with some unexpected miracles as you start over in this… I know you know, it wasn’t a surprise to Him, and He can turn this all around before our eyes… As far as having to stage things again, do you ever watch the program “Sell this House?” They often just use sheets for curtains and tablecloths, even covering up trash cans and using them as nightstands, or making boxes into the shape of a table or chair and covering them up… They say it’s all about just giving the buyer an IDEA of how their things might look… so maybe you don’t need to bring too many items in to stage it again. At any rate, may He send you the right people with no more wait, and turn what would seem to be an “arrow” against you into blessing. No weapon formed against us will succeed against us when we stand on Him. I love the words from 2 Chronicles 20– My eyes are on you Lord! The battle belongs to him and as we praise Him He will move on our behalf!
Be encouraged!
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So sorry to hear that plans didn’t go as planned. I know it is tough for you right now but it seems that God always has a better plan for us and things always work out better than planned. Hang in there, I know things will get better for you. I will keep my fingers crossed and say a little prayer for you. You have many friends in blog land rooting for good things to come your way!
~Debra
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Your situation makes me tired, and I’m just sitting here reading! I follow you faithfully and am always inspired in one way or another. Your faith is strong. You will be able to look back and see how God brought all things together for your good. We moved to eastern WA from CA 12 years ago and never looked back.
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Melissa, so sorry to hear that news. I know how disappointing it must be to have to start over again. But, you’re so right, you just have to trust that God has a better plan for you all. A much better plan. That really stinks though! Look for the silver lining in the clouds.
Rhoda @ Southern Hospitalitys inspiring blog post..Frugal Fashion
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I so feel for you! We were in a similiar situation for about seven months of owning a home in one state while living in a new home in another. It is still affecting my feelings for the current house oddly enough…I still feel like I have to wait to move forward and it’s been three months since we’ve been owners of one home only!
Best of luck to you! I really hope the old home will sell quickly.
Marianna
Mariannas inspiring blog post..Snake!
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Well, that stinks. I’m sorry your house didn’t get sold. It’s been a crapy week for a lot of my friends. Hugs all around to the people having this type of week. I hope things look up over the weekend!
Patricias inspiring blog post..Going to the faire!
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Hope your house matters are settled quickly. Here’s to a better weekend.
What a classic book!
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Wow, are buyers allowed to do that? I’m sorry to hear your house isn’t sold like you thought it would be. I know firsthand how frustrating house sale/purchase troubles can be. I hope you find a new buyer immediately!
Jo – To a Pretty Lifes inspiring blog post..Weird Fireplace Shelf Decorated – Finally!
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You hang in there.
In some important way, you and your family are being protected.
Laura
Lauras inspiring blog post..La India Spice Company Again
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Oh man, I missed a procrastinator party?!?! I guess it was because I kept putting off my weekly blog visits… see, Queen of Procrastination.
I am soooo sorry to hear that your buyers pulled out. There are many people who do not realize the effects of their actions. My guess is that these people were first timers and do not realize the effort everyone had put into the sale of your home. My husband just left the mortgage industry at the beginnning of the year (praise the Lord!) so I’ve heard some real horror stories.
Good luck and best wishes- everything will work out
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~Rachel
Yard Sale Mamas inspiring blog post..
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You guys make me want to cry HAPPY TEARS for all of your sweet words and support, wow, I am always amazed how many kind-hearted friends I have out there. You are all wonderful. I feel SO SO MUCH BETTER today. I know this is all going to be fine. I just needed some time to adjust to my new normal of living in limbo!
And your support made me feel like I am really not alone in all of this. Thank you. Good times ahead, non?
big hugs to you all…
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That stinks !
It took us a year to sell our home in Iowa while living in Kansas.
The buyer was a real jerk. He wanted to move in early. He wanted to store his stuff for free. He kept bypassing the realtor & bothering us.
We let him store his stuff in the garage. Some teens broke in & he wanted our homeowners to be responsible.
He bought it as is because of his low ball offer. The dishwasher was new & had frozen up & he wanted us to fix it.
Make sure your neighbor or realtor cycles the dishwasher monthly so it won’t freeze up.
The fortunate thing was the sellers in Kansas were able to owner finance for us cause they wanted to move to Ok. So we were able to move in here.
Hope you find another buyer soon !
What was the reason for a 3 month closing ?
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well – I sure hope they lost their earnest money and I hope it was a lot!
It took us 9 months and 2 realtors to sell our home. It is not fun – but later I found out that God’s timing was not my timing and when it happened – all was good.
Julie Sizes inspiring blog post..It’s Official!
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Just a quick addition of support and love and understanding. Stinky situation and yet, as you mentioned, especially right now, there are many others who would gleefully trade with you. Not that that takes away the angst, but maybe it can act as a buffer. I pray you and your family can use this happening to make you stronger — and I do pray a new buyer comes your way ASAP. In the meantime, do keep hanging on and looking up!
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Melissa,
That is so awful!!!! By do trust in God, we’ve had something like that happen to us too and at the end we got a better deal and everything worked out. We never know why GOd would us go through a hell like this and yet we survive and remember what doesn’t kill us, makes us stronger. You have your wonder family and all of us here in blogland rooting for you!!!!
Ninfa
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I am not an attorney but I am a REALTOR and I cannot understand how your buyers were able to just walk away with out some consequences. Feel free to email me if you want to talk about this. Have you already signed your cancellation papers?
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Oh Melissa, my heart aches for you. We are trying to sell our house and it’s such a tough market. How disappointing that you thought it was sold only to have to start over again trying to sell it. I’m sorry to hear that disappointing news. But I really appreciate your attitude and dependence on the Lord. Even though you don’t understand and have tried to follow what you believe God was telling you, sometimes we still hit rough spots. Been there …done that too. I’m sending you a hug through the internet. Hang in there. God is good and He always has His purposes. Maybe it was to encourage others who may be facing similar situations.
Debbies inspiring blog post..Fitness Friday ~ Aging Gracefully
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Oh Melissa I am so sorry about this!! I don’t understand a lot right now but I do know that GOD is bigger than everything that is going on. We will lift you and your family up in prayer. Please know that a family in Ohio is praying for you.
LeAnn:)
LeAnns inspiring blog post..Budget Decorating
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Hi Melissa. I am so sorry to read your disappointing news. What a roller coaster ride you’ve had. I hope you soon learn why this particular situation occurred and that something even better and brighter awaits you in the very near future. ~Arleen
Arleen @ Seasons for All at Homes inspiring blog post..Home Library Bookshelves
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My dear M.
I’ve been in a somewhat similar situation with the house.
Of course you’ll make it through this trial, you’ll be a better and stronger person on the other side, but while you are hiking this rocky slope….may God be with you.
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Oh Melissa, I understand completely. I have been there and done this! At the moment, my family and I are living with extended family as we wait on the Lord to provide a new ministry opportunity for my husband. I understand things not going the way we think they are supposed to go.
So, My prayer is that as you surrender this situation to God’s will and timing that He will fill you with His peace and help you to feel His loving arms around you.
I did start on a Procrastination project thanks to your encouragement, but I have not finisthed it due to waiting on funds to finish it, but once its done, I will post a photo on my blogspot for you to stop by and see.
Thank you again for all of your encouragement. I hope that we your readers can now return that encouragement to you.
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Stephanies inspiring blog post..20 Little Happy Things to Celebrate Life!
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I’m so sorry Melissa. We’ve sold enough houses now that I know the feeling of holding your breath til the very very very end. I can’t even imagine what you are feeling. (hugs) I’ll be praying for you.
If anyone deserves a break, my friend, it’s YOU.
Darlas inspiring blog post..Lands’ End Swimsuit Giveaway!
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Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and hoping for better days to come.
Blessings,
Gayle
Gayle at Mountain Momas inspiring blog post..Thinking of Lilac Trees
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Dear Melissa, I am so sorry to hear this news. My son and his partner had the same thing happen to them, they had already bought another house and so the first house went to foreclosure and they lost it. I was so angry at the so called BUYERS…..who happened to be a CHURCH for heavens sake!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know God will bring you through this. I will pray for you and keep you in my thoughts as well. Hang in there! Love, Pinky
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I joined the party a little late. It was a fun post … thanks!
~Heather
Mrs. Joness inspiring blog post..Beautiful Life Friday and 6 Unimportant Faves
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I’m so sorry! Sucks doesn’t it… seems things can’t get any worse and yet, sometimes, they do! I’ll be praying and thinking of you. I can’t imagine selling and moving at this time! We’re stuck for the moment in our too small house… but damn if I am not thankful for the roof over our head… my husband’s job… and being able to provide for our family. Especially at this time in America! You’re in my thoughts… here’s hoping that your Washington Welcome will be warm soon!
PS – I officially procrastinated my procrastinators’ project… how many lashes do I get?!
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Peace be with you and your family, Melissa. I am raising you and your family up in prayer. May the Lord bless and keep you.
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I am so sorry for your disappointment! I like what you said about trusting God in it – that He has something for you to learn, or something better in mind for you.
I am asking Him and trusting alongside you in this! Can’t wait to hear how it all turns out!
Mrs.Rabes inspiring blog post..Happy Birthday Mom!
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I know you are sad that your house didn’t sell but God has the perfect person in mind, even before you decided to sell. Don’t fret….things will turn around. I know easier said than done, I’ve been in a similar situation and it is easy to lose patience.
Jeremiah 29:11
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Oh, Melissa! That is such a rotten break. I am so sorry you have had to go through all of that. I’m hoping and praying you have much brighter days in the very near future. On the subject of the procrastinator project, I vote for the next one being in July because I missed out on the last one and have several ideas. Take care!
Hugs,
Joanie
Joanie@The Bright Sides inspiring blog post..republic of tea review
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Oh Melissa, I am so, so sorry. Oh my goodness, how could they do that to you? I am thinking of you and sending you a big hug from Australia. We are all here for you in bloggy land. You have such a wonderful attitude to life. I too try to put my disappointments into perspective but that still doesn’t mean they don’t break your heart at the time. You are a strong, resourceful, wonderful woman. You will rise to the challenge. Just get some sleep first! A-M xx
a-ms inspiring blog post..A ‘Perfect Piece’
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Oh my goodness! How awful. Your blog always lifts my spirits, so I wish there was something I could do to help lift yours. We have been through a similar situation (misery loves company!) and are now in a wonderful home…so things do work out in the long run. My practical advice for you is don’t take anything back to stage your house. As a buyer, I can envision MY things better in a home if the rooms are empty. My husband agrees. So save yourself some time and energy. I will be praying that things work out FAST!
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Dear Melissa…hang on there, girl!
When your bow is broken and your last arrow spent, then shoot, shoot with your whole heart.
That’s what you did, and you did good.
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Life is always good. We may get an answer we don’t like but there’s always a reason why. Continue to have faith.
All is good!
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continue to perservere; rely on Him and know He’s taking you exactly where you need to be. take care!!
jenifriends inspiring blog post..{76}
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Melissa,
I, too, was “supposed” to close last week. Two days before our closing date, we found out the buyer had not filed taxes in 07 and so their loan was not approved. We, too, has passed up on two other offers. 90% of my house was/is packed. AND this comes on the heels of an adoption not going through the previous month. So… I feel your anxiety, frustration, anger, confusion, exhaustion, dissappointment, bewilderment, and fury all wrapped up in a ball of faith with pinches of hope! We are now scheduled to close next week. So we’ll see what next week brings. I pray God sends you a buyer soon that will love your old home and bring Him glory in his sovereignty and you peace and comfort and big smiles!
Dawn Sullivans inspiring blog post..
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So sorry to hear about the house. Everything happens for a reason even though what’s happening is so unfair. Hang in there.
Anna Rs inspiring blog post..Gibraltor Rock
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Melissa- After reading this post my heart just hurts for you. How unbelievably disappointing. I know right now it seems frustrating and unfair but there truly has to be a reason why this all didn’t work out right now. It might not be apparent right now but you will figure it out one day!!
Thanks for hosting such a great party. You are a wonderful hostess!! Still smiling on the outside even though you are crushed on the inside.
Hope you have a nice weekend and remember all of the wonderful blessing you have around you!!!
Maridiths inspiring blog post..Guest Room – BEWARE!!
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Had something similar happen a few years ago and was so discouraged. Ended up with a much better buyer–sold outright to a real estate attorney who handled everything–no realtor fees! Anyway, God will figure it all out in His timing, even though today seems beyond horrible. Best to you!
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Thank you for sharing your disappointments as well as your triumphs. And thank you so much for your reminder that, when folks exercise their free will to make choices, those choices affect other people. I am so sorry that you’ve been so negatively affected this past week, but I am grateful to hear that lesson again. You are kind and courageous to share your story; you inspire us to remember that our choices, good and bad, will affect people. And I admire you for your GOOD choice to face this new challenge with grace and faith. Blessings to you.
Richellas inspiring blog post..Faster and faster
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I see you already have plenty of friends who have commiserated wtih you. I’ll make one more.
We have had two of the most horrible moving experiences imaginable in the course of our marriage, one just a few years ago. It was not unlike yours, many story elements the same. You are right, however, that you cannot let it ruin your life. You just have to get up and dust yourself off and start over.
Scribbler
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House hunting and selling are hardly ever a smooth and easy process. I bought my first place almost 2 years ago and it was CRAZY. I looked for a year, and then took a break because I just couldn’t find anything in my price range that I really liked (I live in the DC area). Then I started up again and found my place, only the owners were in a position where they had to sell for less than they owed and more than the place was worth, which made negotiations impossible. I really liked them and understood their position, but I couldn’t buy for more than a place was worth, right? So needless to say I was so depressed when things fell through. Then a month later they called and we made it happen. I was down before, but I had to settle myself in and know that God was going to take care of me. It was hard and disappointing. When I finally settled it was better than before, I had more money saved and got a better deal.
I know God is going to take care of you. You inspire so many, and I know your faith is strong. I’m already excited to read your update post about what wonderful outcome there is for you
Tees inspiring blog post..Tracy Porter
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Praying for you and your family, but I know that you don’t need it! God has great things in store for you!!! Thank you for your blog and for the inspiration and beauty that you share daily. You probably will never know how much it impacts people’s lives! (especially mine!!!) And thank you soo much for hosting the party. I actually got something done! I’d love to join another one in July!
mamaK@lingeringlifes inspiring blog post..Project Procrastination Party–The End!!!
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OMGOSH! SOOOOOOOOOO glad you are doing another project procrastinator- now I can finish or shall I say start the one I was SUPPOSE to do for this last P.P. And lets do both one in July and Oct- this is such a great way to get people motivatied AND gives others good ideas on how to re-purpose things. LOVE you girl and I am praying that something GREAT will come out of your situation. God can always make good out of bad. HE IS FAITHFUL!!
Amanda-The Eck Lifes inspiring blog post..Things we dont want others to see
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Thank you for sharing the ugly, Melissa. I’m so sorry it stinks…but you do a great job of lighting a pretty, scented candle for those stinky things in life
Sending love and support your way.
emily @ chatting at the skys inspiring blog post..chatting about photos
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Hi Melissa!
My heart goes out to you so much for this difficult situation. I’m so glad to read how you are trusting the Lord.
Isa 43:1-3
But now, this is what the LORD says —
he who created you, O Jacob,
he who formed you, O Israel:
“Fear not, for I have redeemed you;
I have summoned you by name; you are mine.
2 When you pass through the waters,
I will be with you;
and when you pass through the rivers,
they will not sweep over you.
When you walk through the fire,
you will not be burned;
the flames will not set you ablaze.
3 For I am the LORD, your God,
the Holy One of Israel, your Savior;
NIV
Thank you for your fun blog, for the giveaway and for keeping a great attitude through all this. He is the lifter of your head! Be encouraged!
denise in nc
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Melissa, that is just terrible. I can’t believe people would do something like that. You know there’s a reason for all this – it just isn’t clear yet. Hang in there and thankyou for everything you do. The best is yet to come!
Mavens inspiring blog post..The Queen is Down! My Fabulously Faux Forty-Third Birthday Part I
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Oh dear, that is rough.
Your blog has been an inspiration to many of us, doing the same dance of trying to find the positive spin in difficult circumstances.
Wishing you a weekend of peace and a new buyer who wants a fast closing date soon.
Pearl Maples inspiring blog post..Sky Watch Friday
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Wishing you all the best and hoping it all works out.((hugs)))
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Melissa,
I feel your pain, frustration and uncertainty in your voice…it can be so difficult to understand why the “north wind” can bring bone-chilling gusts in our lives…but the north wind blows. Keeping positive and “Anchored” during the gale-like winds are difficult, and it often feels like strength is waning.
Hold tight to your Anchor, and you will find strength and inspiration. These words are to encourage myself as well as you…know you are supported and lifted up by many.
Warmly,
Debbykay@Rose Cottage Gardens and Farm
Debbykays inspiring blog post..Savoring Violets
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Melissa ~ for those of us who love to plan and organize our lives, uncertainty is very, very hard to deal with. It stops us dead in our tracks and makes us look upward and WAIT… and LISTEN. Procrastination aside, its a tough gig to deal with for us “get-it-done” folks.
You may never know why your prospective buyers did not go forward. Maybe it was as shallow as a better deal, or maybe it was their own fears about finances, or a health event, or a family crisis. I had the same thing happen to me, years ago, buyer backed out and put us in a real financial pickle for several months. I learned a lot form the experience, mostly about how to make sure that I had a REALLY good ” Plan B” from here on out!
Prayers ~ Eileen @ Star’s Fault
Eileen @ Star’s Faults inspiring blog post..Hooked on Glitter Pins ~
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I am so sorry about your house not selling. We live in a messed up world! Keep trusting in God. You will not be disappointed in the end.
I will ask Him to bless you and to help you see all the blessing you have right now too.
Joys inspiring blog post..Sage Neck Tie Purse
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Had to comment to say I’m so sorry. Prayers for encouragement.
Robin Rane’ ~ All Things Heart and Homes inspiring blog post..Yumalicious~Chocolate Chip Banana Pudding and a Giveaway!
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I ‘m sorry the deal fell through. When something like this happens I always find out later that God had something so much better in mind. When I was going through a very scary illness several years ago, a friend was voicing her disappointment in her new house not being inspected for a couple of weeks longer and therefore she and her family could not move in when expected. They had already closed on thier old house. She looked at me and apologized for complaining about something so trivial. I told her, “Honey, if it’s a big deal to you then it’s a big deal to me, too.” I told her we would pray about it and sure enough the inspector made a special effort and got the inspection done before the bank called the construction loan due. And I know she prayed diligently for my healing every day I was sick, and today I am very healthy (except for that over weight thing but I’m trusting God for that too). So it’s always better to get the prayer balling rolling as soon as possible. Thank you for your comment on my chairs. I feel great getting the whole roof finished, thanks for the challenge!
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Me- the eternal optimist has had trouble with my husband’s constant “We don’t have the keys yet” while I am trying to get all of my painting and decorating plans ready to go for the 29th when we (are set to) close on our house. Now I see things really can go wrong still. I’m sorry to hear about your situation but how you are still able to push forward with your message of finding beauty in life every day – no matter what- is inspiring. You don’t just talk (blog) the talk, you walk the walk. I hope it all works out for you soon.
ginas inspiring blog post..ever since we did this…
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Melissa, I’m so sorry that things didn’t work out the way you expected or wanted. Your right sometimes life does stink.
Sending positive thoughts and prayers your way.
SoBella Creationss inspiring blog post..Happy Mother’s Day
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Melissa, I am so sorry to hear about your house closing falling through. We had the same thing happen last year at this time on our home. It is actually still up for sale- know God has a reason for this kind of timing-
I actually did get a project almost done and so linked it here- I do so wish I would have joined the Procrastinator Party and will certainly be doing so in July when you have it again!
blessings
mary
Mary Ellens inspiring blog post..Teeny Tiny Breakfast reveal- I really have been working while DH is away!
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I am so sorry that this happened. That is just the pits. I hope the situation is resolved soon for you and your family. I hate to hear this.
Maureens inspiring blog post..try a little tenderness
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Melissa, this is a little late, but my heart just sunk to hear this, but what a wonderful outlook you have. I have some family members in the same situation and I just feel for you. It will all work out, maybe even for the better…you just never know. Thank you for such a great procrastinator party, I would be a supporter whenever you have one~I love the accountablity. Blessings to you!
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Melissa, I can empathize with you. My heart breaks for you and your family.
I’m having to remind myself that God sees the big picture, and I can’t. I had a disappointment this weekend, and though not as huge as yours, I still struggled with, “WHY, God?” And it’s okay to ask Him why. It’s what builds our faith to come out on the other side and say, “Okay, I don’t understand, but I have to trust that you know what You are doing.” I’ll be praying for y’all!
Heathahlees inspiring blog post..All those tassels….
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I am so sorry to hear about your house troubles, something similar happened to us and you have to keep thinking that something better is coming!!! It is hard when you are in the thick of things but you never know what tomorrow might bring. Sending good thoughts to you.
Kim
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Oh Melissa I am sorry. I understand all that you are saying, fatigue, disappointment yet trying hard to remember that God is in control. I hope the days since then have been better.
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I’m sorry, Melissa. I was afraid something like this was going on when I saw your comments over the last few weeks.
HUGS!
living with lindsays inspiring blog post..Finding Joy
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I’m so sorry about your house. My husband is currently having some bad things going on at work, and it hurts. But it has been a time that has reminded us both that God is in complete control of our lives. Even when something seems bad, it did not take God by surprise, and He has a plan in it. And as believers we can just rest in Him and know that He is going to work out His will in our lives, even when other people do things to us that we don’t like and that hurt. I do hope that your old house sells very quickly, and that you can have a peace about it all.
Shannon
Shannon @ Silver Trappingss inspiring blog post..
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I don’t suppose one more person telling you they’re sorry will help, but I am. Sorry. And although I believe as you do that God is watching over us and that He has something better in store, sometimes, that’s just not what you want to hear!
I hope things are resolved soon. I love your blog!
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I’m so sorry to hear about your house troubles Melissa. There must be something in the air because we’re having issues with our buyer too. Their buyer backed out on their house and now we have to get an extension on ours so they can wait for it to sell again. I hope yours sells quickly!
rue
rues inspiring blog post..Is it just me?
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