HELLOOOO friends! Wow, what a summer this has been! So much has happened around our home in the past couple of weeks so I thought I’d do a “life lately” post to catch you up with the latest renovation update! You might want to sit down with a cup of coffee or tea, though….this will be a long one :).
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We are SOOOO happy to be so close to the tail end of this home renovation!
The last few weeks have felt like one of the more tiring phases of the whole renovation process. For those who are considering a renovation in your home, I’ll tell you why this is so you can prepare for it! And for those of you who just enjoy seeing the process, I’ll give you a little peek at the messy reality :) as well as the pretty that is starting to show in our progress!
When you live in your home during a renovation, there are many benefits but also some challenges to consider. There are various phases in a reno of this size when you have to change your daily life habits to accommodate the projects in various main rooms of your home. This means you also have to move yourself and your belongings from the rooms you usually like to hang out at home and sometimes you do that multiple times a week.
please note the spaces I’m sharing in this post are still in process, so we still need to sweep, dust and are awaiting paint touch ups
and wood heat registers and some finishing trim work ….
The past few weeks have been spent emptying every closet, moving furniture around and carrying boxes of belongings in AND out of every single room so contractors could install flooring upstairs and on the staircase. Challenging, yes. Fun? No. But SO WORTH IT!
We absolutely love our floors, they are everything we hoped they would be and more. Happy, light and so beachy but also warm and welcoming. They are real European White Oak hardwood, engineered. I unfortunately don’t have a link to them — they were purchased through a local store and have no brand name I can find online.
Also, our living room got a fresh coat of paint and we are THRILLED with the color! It’s Benjamin Moore Beach Glass. It is the perfect blue green combo of moody and happy. The color is complex, it’s beautiful as it changes throughout the day!
If you thought our home would be finished, clean, decorated or photo ready by now ha, well, I’m sorry to disappoint! We really are near the end of this project but as is often the case there are times when it honestly feels MORE chaotic than complete! Even though the projects themselves are close to done (after six months) the finishing work and getting settled is one of those “it sometimes gets worse before it gets better” situations.
Let me share the reality from last week! :) If you are one of those who likes to zoom in on a mess or if it makes you feel better about your own chaos to see it in mine, you’re welcome. :) If it unnerves you to see chaos, I feel that. Just scroll on by :).
So why do we still have so much chaos? We’ve had to shuffle everything in our home and move it somewhere else — over and over again so the contractors could paint the remaining main floor rooms and staircase as well as install the flooring up the steps and throughout the upstairs. Basically, we feel like we moved a few extra times this summer :).
Gratefully contractors helped us move some of the heavier items. We still did (and are doing) a lot of moving ourselves though and our backs are now reminding us we aren’t as young and strong as we used to be. HA!
The past couple of weeks we’ve been trying to put it all back where it belongs — that’s going a bit slower than I’d like but it’s partly because we’re also trying to figure out where we want everything (as well as what we can no longer keep!). And we’re slower because of our backs. :) And other life obligations — oh, and a quick beach trip last week which I can’t wait to tell you about!
Also I should mention we are still awaiting the final phase of this reno, which is the last paint touch ups and any remaining “punch list” items to finish it all off! So even though we’re nearly done, until those last parts are complete it means we can’t use or organize some spaces like we will be able to when it’s all done. Which also adds to the sense of chaos!
For example, waiting on paint touch ups and finishing work is impacting our little mudroom which has to remain filled with stacks of boxes until we can use the shelves and get organized. I’ll share the newly painted mudroom and powder room in a future post!
It’s good to remember throughout a renovation that home takes time, thought and intention, it’s not a one hour HGTV makeover. We will enjoy the journey for years to come! In fact, even once our contractors are done, we’ll still have things we want to do or will need to finish in the future.
However, it’s easy to slip into a mindset during a renovation that you won’t be content until you get every single thing done or even decorated exactly way you want it. Some people DO get to arrive at a perfectly finished home at the end of their renovation, but not us! We are thrilled to return to the slower journey of home creating though and are just so grateful to have had a head start on some of the projects!
FINALLY we are at the point where we have started putting some of the spaces together. It’s exciting to turn it into our home and to see our style take shape with each layer we add (and to see some things we’ve had for years finding a new place in our home!).
My husband and I were just talking about this today — I am enjoying just being in the house! I am taking my time to sense what feels right and what doesn’t and then I tweak things to impact how the space feels. It’s fun trying or combining different colors, textures, furnishings and accessories to create the right mood. Which mood will be the right one? It takes time to decide that, but I live with things for awhile and if I decide something isn’t feeling right, I can change or replace it. That is my process at this point, it’s little tweaks until it feels right to me :).
This home will be like all of our others in that our style always emerges and takes shape over time. My style doesn’t necessarily change, I’m pretty consistent on what I like, but how our style will be showcased or even re-interpreted in new surroundings will evolve over time.
The process of “getting settled” can’t be rushed! I’m sure I’ll change many things as we live in each space and go through more seasons here, but simple doable “changes” have always been the most rewarding for me. I keep reminding my husband to not get too attached to something in a particular spot because it might not be there the next day :). Good thing he usually agrees once I explain it. And he often has his own opinions on our home too, so we are used to change and moving things around until one or hopefully both of us love it.
It’s the little things that are bringing joy these days, such as hanging art and even this linen board in our guest room. Yes, we now have a real guest room and bathroom (they were occupied by my parents before the Tiny Cottage was complete) so I feel like our house GREW, too!
It’ll be neat to make those spaces our own in time, but it is also fun to use what we have right now just to get settled. We have my sister’s family coming this weekend so we’ve felt extra motivated to use what we have to make it more welcoming :).
My husband has been asking me to display those vintage floats (fishing floats) for ages so he’s thrilled they found a home hanging on a rope on the closet door. Do you recognize other things in this room? :) You never know when or where something will show up.
I had a reader once say she loves that about following me — we move things around a lot and re-use them in new places so looking at my photos is like a game of Where’s Waldo!
This chair is all set for Lily who loves having cozy spots around the house. A little blanket keeps her comfy and the chair clean :).
Speaking of cozy spots for Lily and things you might remember from the past, I still love this rug my girls and I designed for Annie Selke Dash and Albert! Do you remember voting for our rugs in their contest years ago? If so, thank you. What a fun experience it was to get to design rugs for them!
Even though we’ve been so busy around our home this summer, we’ve been taking time to enjoy summer, too.
Our weather has been perfect all season, so there have been plenty of walks …
We’re also enjoying a return to familiar rituals. Even though our kitchen is also still awaiting final finishing work, we don’t take for granted that we’re now able to make coffee and prepare meals in a real kitchen (definitely not sad to leave the bathroom coffee making in the past). Beatrix (our new stove) is a dream and we’re pleased with her cooking ability so far! :)
Coffee alone in the morning is one my favorite things! We’ve had contractors in the house forever so being able to just savor my morning in a quiet house, by myself, is truly the best feeling.
We’re also having the best time planning our backyard and even started planting things outside, our new jasmine is SO happy on our porch! It smells so heavenly. More to share on plants and our backyard progress, but that’ll be a post for another day.
Oh, and this creatively re-imagined book (book #12 for me!) launched this week! Simply Home is a combination of my best selling books Simple Decorating and Simple Organizing, so two previously paperback books in one new hardback! You flip it one way and it’s the decorating side and turn it over for organizing!
There are SO many good tips in here (I think we counted 600!). The book is so relevant and helpful if (like me!) you enjoy simple realistic ideas or inspiration to create order and beauty in the chaos of life :). This was hard earned experience and practical advice from my own home, friends, so I’m happy to share it with you. Simply Home would make a lovely housewarming gift, too. (If you get it and love it, I would appreciate if you could leave a review! Good reviews really help to get a book into people’s homes, so as always, I am very grateful for your support).
We also took a few days to leave our home and go to one of our OTHER favorite beach destinations … Seabrook! You might remember we went there a few years ago, I shared the whole tour of the home we stayed in HERE.
This time we stayed as one of the very first guests in a brand new darling home I can’t wait to share with you. We had a lot of fun. Stay tuned for a post on that and as well as more updates around our own home!
If you made it through our renovation and followed along with this whole post, thank you for being here, friend. ;)
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We moved into our newly built home almost 5 years ago and I am still tweaking things! Looking forward to following along as you settle in! Everything is looking fabulous!
Thank you Molly! We are so excited to be able to make it feel like home now. Such. a long process! Your home is beautiful, so I know it’s worth it!
This post is so validating. We finished our renovation a couple of weeks ago and I am moving slow and purposefully through the unpacking. Your blog posts are always an inspiration, and I just received your new book. Organizing my new kitchen and thinking through all my other storage areas to make sense for our current season of life is important, so I am not just putting things back to where they were stored previously. We are empty nesters now, not the busy family we were when we moved here 25 years ago! Thanks for always keeping it real, and focusing in on making a house a home – and NOT showcasing trends that last a season!!!
So happy to hear you’re finished and making it yours. That’s exciting! It’s so true with the empty nest, we keep talking about that very thing! We are trying to set up our home in a way that makes sense for us now — but we have to remind ourselves often that this chapter is different. 🥰
I cannot wait until it is all done!! Love the wall colors especially the living room. And the little cubby holes in the kitchen are so creative. This will be the perfect house for you when you are done.
Thank you!! We think it will be just right for us. It’s so cozy and fun to live in and share with our family! 💙
I love your blue and white touches — and all the “cozy” you insert into every room. Thank you for sharing your spaces and thoughts with your readers. Truly a treat to follow!
Aw thanks, I love to be at the point where going forward now we can add those fun touches! So happy to share and especially grateful you’re following!!
Can you divulge how much the new floors cost? As a whole or per square foot? Just to get an idea about the overall cost for a project like this. Many thanks!
I believe our floors were about $6 a square foot for the planks and another $3.75 or so per square foot to install. There’s also additional costs like any underlayment or glue, as well as any baseboard molding to finish it. It is a large expense all at once, but they should be durable and last forever. It feels so much cleaner than carpet so I think it’s worthwhile investment.
Ooh, Love everything about this, especially the paint color in the Living Room. Perfect and cozy!
Thank you Debbie! We love that color, it really makes it feel special.
Melissa, I love the art above the fireplace! I commend you for your neatness. Having gone through something similar, I ignored dust and dirt for days until it really piled up. Beautiful home!
Well thank you, we’re trying! Although with the aftermath of it’s so dusty — even you when dust it keeps settling for months! We love that painting, we found it in the closet of an old home we were moving into about 20 years ago and bought it from the son of the previous owner for $100! It’s a real beauty so we’re really happy to see it hanging here!
We moved 2 years ago, the first 3 months we lived in one room while the contractors removed popcorn from the ceiling and painted the whole house. Then 8 months later we did a kitchen remodel, which took an extra 5 months for the fridge to arrive and just this month received our handles for the dishwasher and fridge. Now we are having floors installed in two rooms and once again “stuff” is all over the house. I feel your pain and think the same as you do, the house will be finished slowly but surely and that is ok.
Love seeing the progress of your renovation! It looks beautiful.
Sounds like we’ve been living similar lives the past two years, what a wild time but for sure it’ll all get done and be worth the effort to make our homes our own. 💙
As a local resident – thank you for buying local!!! Our little island appreciates your business.
I think one of the hardest part about a renovation – and living in it – is the mess. The dust is a whole new level. Even if you are just renovating one room or one section of your home, you can be as careful as can be in barricading it off, it still makes the entire house messy. In the end though, it is worth it! Yours certainly will be!!!
It’s true, you’re never quite prepared for all the mess it will create all over the house.
I’m loving every single change! You have such a wonderful eye love your style 😁 always have
So kind of you to say, thank you so much Nancy!
Amidst the chaos, your positive perspective is such a great reminder that beauty comes out of patience. Enjoy watching the transformation and can’t wait to watch as you settle your home back to lovely.
Just finished renovating our condo on the lake. I can so relate to your post!! Despite the chaos, I reminded myself, daily, of how blessed we are!! Just purchased Simply Home. Can’t wait to read it and add it to my coffee table collection! Where I believe I have another one of your books! ❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing your home and life- it really is inspiring. Love the new paint color!
I truly appreciate you sharing reality–the process of renovation in a compact home is not for the faint of heart! Most of us in the real world live in modest homes with limited budgets. We are 46 years in our starter home and I still love it, though I don’t know if I have the fortitude to withstand another whole house reno. I do enjoy the tweaking….Thank you for sharing your lovely home with the world…
Thank you so much Cathy!
It all looks beautiful, even amidst the chaos! You are so close to the finish now where the work will be done and you can go back to the fun stuff of puttering and beautifying over morning coffee. One of my personal favorite things to do (except I drink tea)!
I feel like we maybe haven’t seen all the spaces yet or maybe I’m just forgetting something about the layout. Where is that fireplace located in the last shot with your happy pup jumping for the ball? It’s so cute with that chunky mantle.
Thank you! You’ve seen it all (small house ha) but the room with the dog is a sneak peek of a real cute vacation home we stayed at, there’s a new post on it up now.